i got a friend.. like keep sticking to me

all began at the start of new term and got new classmate

the teacher whom i know.. ask me talk to that girl then introduce all this.. and i even ask her wanted to be on my team

ever since.. she been sticking to me like glue.. although she has other friends..


then.. suddenly when we walk together she will grab on to my hand la .. =.=

shes quite good looking.. but er =.= mi don't like her leh

my friend all ask me my stead isit.. mi say no la.. some more i got gf already..

how sia?

Originally posted by youyayu:

i got a friend.. like keep sticking to me

all began at the start of new term and got new classmate

the teacher whom i know.. ask me talk to that girl then introduce all this.. and i even ask her wanted to be on my team

ever since.. she been sticking to me like glue.. although she has other friends..


then.. suddenly when we walk together she will grab on to my hand la .. =.=

shes quite good looking.. but er =.= mi don't like her leh

my friend all ask me my stead isit.. mi say no la.. some more i got gf already..

how sia?

intro to me

from a korean movie 'sad movie':

Suk-hyeon intends to break up with her jobless lover, Ha-seok, and he begins a separation agency that helps other lovers to break up.

"its notch chiu... its my dog..." 

I know saying this may risk getting my 4 years old account banned.

But...

NPNT!

i getting married liao
u must come 喝喜酒 ok?

Hello,TS you have to be assertive, tactful, sensitive to make things clear to her before your gf misunderstands you.   

Does she know you have gf?

YOu not doing anything, you are causing more harm later.

Originally posted by youyayu:

i got a friend.. like keep sticking to me

all began at the start of new term and got new classmate

the teacher whom i know.. ask me talk to that girl then introduce all this.. and i even ask her wanted to be on my team

ever since.. she been sticking to me like glue.. although she has other friends..


then.. suddenly when we walk together she will grab on to my hand la .. =.=

shes quite good looking.. but er =.= mi don't like her leh

my friend all ask me my stead isit.. mi say no la.. some more i got gf already..

how sia?

say this, 'u r always be my best friend forever !'

Originally posted by Detached:

I know saying this may risk getting my 4 years old account banned.

But...

NPNT!

where in the world did this even let u use npnt.. i am asking how to reject a girl and not like those ppl posting in bar os sgsex forum " i am a good looking blah blah looking for girls to fuk*

Originally posted by Fantagf:

Hello,TS you have to be assertive, tactful, sensitive to make things clear to her before your gf misunderstands you.   

Does she know you have gf?

YOu not doing anything, you are causing more harm later.

she don't know mi got gf.. i told my gf liao.. my gf understands me 1.. i not those hua xin carrot

Originally posted by youyayu:

where in the world did this even let u use npnt.. i am asking how to reject a girl and not like those ppl posting in bar os sgsex forum " i am a good looking blah blah looking for girls to fuk*

Thanks for the good attitude.

I guess that is one good way for her to reject you, just show her this side of you and problem solved.

Edit: And don't you ever question my right to free speech.

its not you... its me...

Originally posted by FireIce:

i getting married liao
u must come 喝喜酒 ok?

my ah yi this sundae married leh... lol when is yours

Originally posted by youyayu:

my ah yi this sundae married leh... lol when is yours

lol... problem become chit chat thread...

Originally posted by Rednano:

lol... problem become chit chat thread...

lol..

Youyayu

Are u in sec sch or poly? and if u dun mind me saying this....


At your age serious girl/boy relationship should be out....whether u have girl friend or she like u ....not impt.


The most impt thing is.....if u find her pesty and u have to reject her .... reject her NICELY, dun hurt her feeling in anyway..... 

Originally posted by 4sg:

Youyayu

Are u in sec sch or poly? and if u dun mind me saying this....


At your age serious girl/boy relationship should be out....whether u have girl friend or she like u ....not impt.


The most impt thing is.....if u find her pesty and u have to reject her .... reject her NICELY, dun hurt her feeling in anyway..... 

i know =.= but how..

Tell her you have a gf already ...

Its not us... its the society...

Originally posted by youyayu:

i know =.= but how..

Depend on the gal lah... wat type is she?
intro or extrovert?
mood swing or mature type?
flirty/vain or quiet type? etc

Cannot tell u how on forum n it would wrong or misleading to do so. You have to make your own judgement ....

Sometimes u just can't control a person or situation but go along and try your best to handle it...... it is part of growing up.

I tell you this, even as an adult, I come across the situation u now face.

I can only say this ......no one two women is the same, no two situations is alike. Dun worry about 'how to reject' things, just concentrate on your study and dun hurt her feeling.

1) Because for a girl to show her feeling - it takes a lot of courage.
2) She is at the age where a rejection from a guy can hurt her for life (but not all girl are like that...depend on her character).

intro to me

y is it so hard?? not as if u 2 hav started on anything

if she stick juz let her stick la, but if she hold yr hand then no-no, just tell her nicely "sorry, i alr hav a gf, like dis not very nice", add a slight smile to say u meant no offence

if u want her to stop all those stuffs..

just be frank, and direct..yet gentle in approaching the issue and talk to her about it.

just be a gentleman

then u should just tell her ?

nxt time she hold ur hand just say sorry ?

Originally posted by youyayu:

she don't know mi got gf.. i told my gf liao.. my gf understands me 1.. i not those hua xin carrot

Simple lah, in her presence when your gf called just used term of endearment to address your gf, "Honey", "Sweetheart", "Dear" and so on, then tell her your gf just called.    Or when you are with her and you are meeting your gf after that you can ask her where she will be going, then tell her that for you you will be meeting your gf. 

wa pain lei have to do unti like that meh..